Correcting What's Wrong...

I was sitting at home watching television (which I do not do much) when the thought struck me, "When did we go wrong?" I mean really, "What Chilli Wants," " Flavor of Love," "Bad Girls Club," the list is ridiculously long, and almost hypnotic. Really y'all, have we lost it THAT much? Are we so not enthused by our own lives to the extent that we would rather see people who have more zeroes in their net worth than us, yet have the same problems that we do, just on a larger level? I mean I have enough issues with raising my four teenagers, without having to see how "supernanny" helped a couple who did not have the sense enough to go to Proverbs 23:13 to see how to handle their children. There is so many theories about children that it is getting harder to see who is running the asylum, the warden or the inmates. Now those of you who know me, know that I am a staunch Christian, while I may not follow it to the letter, I believe in it. Furthermore, when I have been strict in my beliefs, my beliefs have never been wrong. However, this was not the topic, so let's get back on task.

So what do we do? How do we take our minds back? It is really quite simple. First, STOP WATCHING THESE STUPID TV SHOWS! I mean really, Brandy and Ray J? These are two of the most insignificant "stars" out there. Now please don't think that I think that the tv that I watch is the greatest, I am a product of the environment that I was involved in for 17 years. I watch shows like "24" and "The Unit" and the Military channel. Am I suggesting these as alternatives? Of course not. That would be foolish, however, may I suggest, find your background and watch programs that you know something about, whether fiction or non fiction.

Second, read a book. It is better for the creative juices and to stimulate the imagination if you read a book. Even if the subjects are fiction, your mind creates the pictures to accompany the words that you read. Encourage your children to do so. Watch their grades improve and their self esteem.

Third, start writing. Since we are in an electronic age, craft out emails, start blogs etc. or even, God forbid, write someone a letter. A letter? Oh my gosh! Not that! (just kidding) We must keep the interpersonal skills that we have learned at some point because if we don't we will surely lose them. I saw the movie the "Book of Eli" this week. There was a line in it where the young lady asked Eli,"what was the world like before the war?" Eli responded," people had more than they needed." Excess. Too much television. 400 channels with HD. Now they are in the process of 3D television (with the glasses). I am just saying, be careful and let's not forget. Don't forget what you were taught, if you weren't taught it, get with someone who has some more experience, don't be afraid to be taught. You might actually learn something and like what you learn.

Be blessed!

Tired

This is coming straight off of the top:

I am tired,

tired of the uselessness that society heaps on my shoulders,

tired of the programming, both mental and subliminal,

tired of the thought sold to me, get an education, so you can get a job,

tired of having student loan bills and no income to pay them.

I am tired of the having the sense to not waste all of my cash

while some idiot wins the lottery and is broke within 5 years

I am tired of bill collectors always calling on my phone

yet I keep giving them the number, when I apply for student loans

Random Thoughts and comments

As I sit and meditate on the actions of the past two weeks, I take note of the things that I have said and thoughts that I had. This will be scattered as I will write it as it comes to mind. First, contrary to popular belief, the movie "Precious" was not that good at all. However, the acting was EXCELLENT. A movie is pretty convincing when you are cheering for the main character to elevate themselves to getting on welfare and hoping they can complete their GED.

I am apprehensive about the State of Michigan's TIP program, although my godbaby is taking advantage of it. It just seems to good to be true. We shall see...

I already know that I have ruffled some feathers in the "community." As a matter of fact, some have been talking crap about me.....LOL (that's funny for real!) At any rate, I will take up Power law number 9 (read Robert Greene's "48 Laws of Power") Your thoughts do not concern me in the least. Nothing but prosperity to you and yours.

I am ready to make the tough decisions, but remember, if you leave it to me, then you are relinquishing control. Do NOT think that I will give it back, because quite honestly, I WONT. I am not a control freak, but I do NOT believe in doing something that has been unsuccessful as an alternative to the same actions being done previously. In the words of Albert Einstein "Doing the same thing and expecting a different result is insanity (paraphrased)."

Prioritization is crucial this week. I have to be concerned with many issues and it is imperative that I give each one my full attention and thought. First is my son's choice of college. That is a whole nother blog entry in and of itself...LOL.

In spite of all these things, I realize and acknowledge that GOD is in control and I am trusting HIM to lead and guide me in the choices that I must make. I offer up the serenity prayer and keep pushing. Seasons greetings to everyone. May GOD bless you and keep you throughout the holiday season.

Be Blessed

the "Orphan"...reveiw

We'll keep this one quick.....on the 1 to 10 scale, with 1 being the most horrible thing ever created and 10 being a cinematic masterpiece, the Orphan was a solid .....5. It wasn't the worst, but it was nowhere near the best. Wait for the DVD.

Be Blessed!

G.I. Joe....(thoughts)

Overall, it was a fun movie. Plenty of action. What disturbs me is the stories that were made up in order to bring stuff together. For those who are not in the know, or don't go back to the time when G.I. Joe was one person (remember with Bulletman and the bionic guy?) But I cannot be so critical as to trash the movie because they had to write some stuff in. It was straight up fun. I recommend it. On a scale of one to ten, with one being the worst of all time and ten being the greatest thing ever made I give it a............7.

and as always,

Be Blessed!

Things that the 30's have taught me...

As I approach the big 4-0, I was thinking back on life and taking stock of the past 10 years. I have been through a lot this decade, divorce, war, marriage and a myriad of personal issues that I care not to discuss at this time (I am not going to put my business on a blog or facebook, ever). Here are some of the things that I have learned in the past ten years:

1. Trust is something so valuable, that you do not realize its value until you either lose it, or others lose it in you.

2. Presentation is 75% of the matter (when you have no idea what is going on). Ergo, if you present yourself correctly, people will believe you.

3. If the dealer is showing six, stand. (Vegas reference)

4. Music is getting progressively dumber and anybody can make it now, no talent required. (I have too many examples to begin naming...)

5. Technology is the "gift and the curse." What if I really don't want to talk to you, nor know that you have called?

6. It takes 15 voicemail messeges to fill up my voicemail box. (See number 5)

7. Family is MOST important (after GOD).

8. Living in Detroit (metropolitan area) is...

9. Higher education leads to a higher paying job, which leads to more bills.

10. There is a reason that it is called a "business PLAN."

11. It is not WHAT you know but who you know. However, it then becomes WHAT they know.

12. I no longer like South Park, after the movie it was just over for me. I attribute it to age...

13. I fuss like my mother, yet I have my fathers demeanor (it is a demonstration of opposites).

14. The entire cast of Seinfeld are a rich collection of blithering idiots...operative word? Rich.

15. "Fraser" is the funniest show ever written.

16. The value of time is something that should never be "wasted" or "killed" i.e. wasting time, killing time etc.

17. There is an understated value in having a good attorney.

18. That value is even greater when you are the attorney. (Candace and Marquita)

19. Read everything in its entirety, before you sign...

20. GOD loves us, unconditionally, however, HE hates some of the things that we do...(69 verses in the Bible tells these things i.e. homoesexuality, lying, pride etc)...and that is what can get you out of HIS favor.

21. If you know someone is doing wrong and you assist in any way, you are just as guilty...

22. If you want nice things, make sure you can afford to keep them up.

23. The less a man makes declaretive statements, the less likely he is to look foolish in retrospect. (Ok I cannot take credit for that one, Quentin Tarrentino-"Four Rooms")

24. You can walk into any African American family reunion and ask, "How is Peaches doing?" or "I don't see Sam out here." and they will probably give you a plate and let you eat.

25. No problem that you have will cause the world to stop spinning, anything that is messed up can be repaired. Just do NOT hide it.

26. People have an insatiable desire to continue to push the envelope, no matter what the area.

27. I hate driving long distances.

28. Relaity television is no substitute for REAL LIFE.

29. Texting can probably be traced to the decline in language arts skills in children (I just don't know how yet).

30. Guys, look at her mother, cause this is who she will be in 40 years.

31. Ladies, look at how he treats his mother, cause this is how he will treat you.

32. Ladies, if he doesn't open the door for you, don't open a door for him...(read between the lines).

33. It is no longer worth it if you are borrowing to invest and constantly getting nowhere.

34. All sunshine makes a desert, all rain makes a swamp, the right combination makes a beautiful garden.

35. Being a Pastor is a CEO position, if you have no business sense, just be an evangelist.

36. Faith without works is dead. (Let that sink in for a minute).

37. You can teach someone everything they know, but never teach everything that you know.

38. Diligent hands makes one rich. (Let that sink in too).

39. Being alone is NOT the same as being LONELY.

40. Fat meat really is greasy and that has nothing to do with the price of tea in China. (Y'all know what I am talking about...LOL)

and as always,

Be Blessed!

To Whom Much is Given...

This is ringing in my head so strong, and "no" I have not been watching "Spider Man." I have been in conversations and debates with many people, about the "realness" of GOD and how people are looking for "signs." What more do you need? First of all, you woke up this morning, like the old folks used to say, "enclothed in your right mind." This is where it ends though, because if you have grown enough to question GOD, you cannot possibly be in your right mind. The Bible says that, "HIS ways are not our ways..." Quite simply put, we obviously do not know what is best for us, we think we do, but we don't, and I can admit that.

Back to the topic, I was thinking about those who are so enamored with finances. They pray for financial freedom and they are not in a proper mind state to be able to handle any kind of prosperity. I have found myself in this situation, and until I am ready for a financial blessing, I will NOT receive one. So people, I ask you, please stop praying to become rich. That is just stupid. Instead pray for the understanding needed in order to handle finances whether it be what you have or what you would like to have, in this gaining of understanding, you are fulfilling the exhortation of,"...in all thy getting, get understanding." (Proverbs 4:7)

and as always,

Be blessed!